Reducing Your Stress and Anxiety

in Romantic Relationship Dating

April Braswell

April Braswell is one of the leading Dating and Relationship Coaches in the country, specializing in Online Dating Coaching and working with clients over 40.


   In my work as a dating and relationship coach, a number of the men and women who approach me or their friends refer to me, tell me secretly of their fears and anxieties about dating, romantic sex relationships, and their fears about getting married.
    Secretly, they fear that they will never find someone who will truly love them. Secretly they are afraid that if the person they’ve been dating, if it doesn’t work out with THEM, then “Marriage, it’ll never happen for me!” Do you ever feel that way and have thoughts like that?
“April, what if it never happens for me?”
   When they do this, they are carrying stress and anxiety in their bodies. Indeed that stress and anxiety can build up cortisal secretions in their system and create stress-related illnesses. When their minds are filled with such fearful thoughts and anxieties, their stress level just increases and worsens the situation for them.
   In my dating and relationship coaching, I make a point of actively listening to them. I make a point of asking them a lot of questions to surface BOTH the fears and anxieties AND their dreams of love.

When you are really in love, what will that look like?

When you say you want to be married, what are some of the details? How will you feel? Where will you live? Will there be children? Will you live in the country? Or a metro area?

  My goal is to help them to make that relationship REAL in their minds and to see it and feel it - what their unique romantic love relationship could really be like.
And once they have started to PICTURE it in their mind’s eye and to FEEL it emotionally and passionately, the very next thing I ensure they do is…
  TO TAKE ACTION to make it happen in their lives.

It is imperative for success in realizing what we most want in life to actually TAKE ACTION to bring it about.

So, when we want to create a great marriage romantic love relationship? We need to go on more dates!

Right after you have envisioned your desire, you must get out there and take action to go on MORE DATES in the next 3 weeks.

Go on coffee dates.

Go on drinks dates.

Meet people and interact with them romantically and DO FLIRT!
   Once you have developed this NEW HABIT of DATING REGULARLY, you are well on your way to your romantic relationship success.

Happy dating!

April Braswell
Online Dating and Relationship Coach

Website: www.aprilbraswell.com

Biography:

April Braswell, is a leading expert Relationship Coach and Online Dating Coach, providing Easy Dating Tips and Relationship Coach services.   Her work as a Romance Coach and Online Dating Coach started out with her own story of romantic love.

Ladies, most of us grew up with dreams of romantic love, a knight in shining armor, reading beautiful fairy tales with gallant heros.  We dreamt of looking stunningly beautiful in our bridal gown and getting married.  Well, April did, too.  However, she was gloriously happily married at 36. 

And then at 37 became a widow. 

Widowed herself, April has successfully navigated the romance and dating game to the altar, worked on a successful marriage and all that a great romantic relationship entails, and now is herself back in the dating game in the 21st century. With her compassionate, humorous and sometimes audacious approach she encourages and inspires her clients to be their best selves and find love with her as their Romance Coach.